Sayla's Cubby Hole-In-The-Wall

cleffairie:

i feel like once you were emo in middle school youre low key emo for the rest of your life, like you could be 20 in the middle of college wearing uggs or whatever but once you hear the first key to the black parade/i write sins/sugar we’re going down you sprout an imaginary fringe and start yelling your lungs out like its 2007 all over again

High school, but yes.


19/100 photos of sarah michelle gellar

19/100 photos of sarah michelle gellar

pdlcomics:

Talking Smack
My husband physically abused me (hit, shoved, choked, you name it) for 8 years and I recently left. Next, I was "date raped" at a party. Then, a close friend came on to me sexually, very aggressively, which terrified the shit out of me because they know how vulnerable I am right now. Now I'm terrified that there are no good people out there, and am thinking of going back to my ex. I'm getting therapy but the thoughts don't stop. Do you have any tips on how to not let fear drive me back to my ex?
Anonymous

emilyvgordon:

Your ex is not a safe haven. Your ex is just comfortable, even if you’re miserable. Comfort is a perfectly fine thing to need right now. Recognize your need for comfort, acknowledge it, and allow yourself comfort. Old friends, family, books you’ve read, comfort food, literally comfortable clothes, warm animals. You deserve comfort. But you don’t deserve to be with a physically abusive man. You deserve the slight discomfort of a brighter and healthier future. 

The tricky part is that familiarity sometimes looks like comfort, even if it’s very bad for you. Going back to your ex is a step backwards. It may be too much for you to take a step forward right now, but at the very least you can sit in place for a bit. Seek out comfort, not a comfortable, familiar misery.

Good luck to you, and take care of yourself. There are good people out there. You are one of them. 

queenhippolyta:

no-this-is-jarod:

they got mad

Yeah because the song isn’t about literally waking up, it’s about the death of the lead singer’s father.


Yeah and the point of comedy is to make light of terrible situations so you don’t wanna kill yourself every damn day you wake up in this miserable world.

queenhippolyta:

no-this-is-jarod:

they got mad

Yeah because the song isn’t about literally waking up, it’s about the death of the lead singer’s father.

Yeah and the point of comedy is to make light of terrible situations so you don’t wanna kill yourself every damn day you wake up in this miserable world.

Got to hang out with this lovely human last night after the show. Lots of fun and silliness was had.

Got to hang out with this lovely human last night after the show. Lots of fun and silliness was had.

Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems. Look for someone who won’t let you face them alone.
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